The most powerful and life changing gift that you can give yourself is to learn how to be alone and love it.
Learn to accept and enjoy the silence.
Learn to accept and enjoy the peace.
Learn to accept and enjoy not being where you want to be, but trusting your journey.
Learn to not need feeling wanted and to not need others to validate your worth.
Learn to live in the present, live in the moment, and love living in the present and living in the moment alone.
If you always want and/or need others because you can’t endure being alone, can’t endure being comfortable with your alone time, and you attach someone onto you for comfort, you will always crumble when they either leave or are not available. You will always break when they disappoint you. You will always crash not having someone with you. You will always suffer. You will always be dissatisfied with either yourself, your life, your moment, or everything. You will always highlight everything negative. You will always put an emphasis on everything negative. You will always belittle yourself. You will always drain your mental. You will always feel unworthy. You will always feel not good enough. You will always feel like you are getting the short end of the stick in life. You will always have insecurities. You will always feel like nothing is going right. You will always stroke people with your brokeness and cause them pain. You will always be fighting a never ending battle. You will always be fighting a never ending battle with yourself…
It is not until you challenge and train yourself to be alone… challenge and train yourself to be comfortable in your own presence and in your own space, that you will finally escape your darkness.
There is no better gift that you can give yourself than to love yourself, and to love yourself enough to be okay with being alone. There is no better refreshing feeling, no better self-revival, no better wakeup call than to love being alone. Your perspective on your life will drastically become clearer and better. You will finally be in a space that you may have felt impossible to step into. It’s possible, it’s HANDS DOWN extremely possible to get to that space. You only need to challenge yourself, trust yourself, trust your journey, and train yourself day by day to being okay with being alone. When you have finally achieved feeling content with your aloneness, you can then stroke others and cause them no harm. You can then bring someone along your journey. You can then decide who around you isn’t capable of growing with you and detach them from your life. You can then want someones company, not be in need of it. You can then be truly happy with your life.
Learn to love being alone. ❤️